For myself, other things I deserve:
A partner that can hold down a job.
A partner that is happy to contribute to the family, emotionally and financially.
A partner that can apologize.
A partner that comforts me when I am upset.
A partner that tells me the truth.
A partner that values his role as a husband and father.
Reliability.
Someone who can collaborate with me on administrative household stuff, like a budget, bills, groceries, who changes the litter box this time -- without having the conversation turn into a vortex of resentment and blame.
A fulfilling sex life.
I'm sure I'll think of more. But I do deserve better than this ****.