Problem is that AH thinks he's a fabulous Dad and I can't imagine what he'd do if I said "I don't feel you're responsible enough to be with the girls today...". I don't care one bit about changing my plans or having the girls more often-- I just think that it will be battle royale to get him to agree to not see them daily and right now the thought of them spending an entire day alone, let alone an overnight with him is totally overwhelming. This never occurred (him being responsible for a whole day alone) when we were married.