Thanks Starcat.
Most parents do give until it hurts (emotionally, and other ways). I think that's what's called "unconditional love." Everyone is entitled (not a cleche') to make mistakes. I don't believe those addicted intentionally want to hurt anyone. In the end, maybe they feel so badly about themselves (addiction) that they do want to leave this world, as the addiction is so great.
I have deep compassion for those suffering with an addiction or with an addicted loved one. That is something I did not aquire or have, when I put my mother into treatment (3X) years ago...
It took my son, whom I love differently to show me what compassion feels like.
Thanks again Star.
Deb