Originally Posted by
MTUSA 
I hoped for advice, not sarcasm. The site consists of words, which I believe many have found helpful.
I love my child. He is drowning in drugs. I cannot simply "take care" of myself while he kills himself.
I am not looking for magic words.
Hi, thank you for sharing. I think it is great that your son has a mom that loves him so much. My mom hasn't called me in years, and I am not an addict(that is another story).
Anyhow, I know how hard it is, at least for me to take care of myself when all I do sometimes is worry about my addicted son. I feel sometimes like I am dying right along with him. Wow, that sounded grim.
I do think that there is probably nothing you can say that will make him see anything, but at least he knows that you really love him, and that matters.
My thoughts are with you and your son.