Dear Amy,
Thank you so much. I NEEDED to hear from a recovering alcoholic or addict. You explained so kindly, something no one else has been able to do. I can do little.
We have sent funds for phone cards (commisary in jail). If he's now saying he does not need treatment, should that stop? Would he decide we don't love him and then use that as an excuse to use when he gets out?
Just your thoughts. I could send a card every few weeks, just saying I/we loved him and no funds. Course, then he'd be mad.
Help me with this if you will. I am grateful beyond words for what you shared. Thank you so much.
Deb