Originally Posted by Tuffgirl

He also said he can't be the man I need. That was a first, and through my own recovery lessons learned, I am taking him seriously on that one. If he can't, he can't. Doesn't matter the reason, does it? The old me would have spent hours trying to "change" his mind, or point out the fact that we make our own choices to be whatever we want to be. But not anymore...he is a grown man who can drive his own life and I am not his Mommy or life coach.