There is a huge communication problem between us. When I try to talk to him about what happened, try to let him know where I am in my head and try to figure out what is going on in his - he usually ends up trying to avoid or dismiss the conversations. He said I need to learn a way to let it go if we want to move forward. How can I "let go" when I don't even really understand it yet. He also says it is times when I start rehashing the past that he starts to feel unloved and not safe in our relationship.
When do I get to feel safe in our relationship?
I feel like I am taking crazy pills!