I just can't grasp the fact that every drug addict is a lost cause and should lose everyone and everything and just say "oh well, he's on his own"? Or have people around to help give him support. And he does want to get clean, I can tell. He saw that he was about to lose me and everything else in his life and it made him wake up, but I'm sure there are addicts on here that can say how hard it is. I know I need to think of myself, and I am in the long run. I appreciate the advice.