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Old 09-04-2011, 06:16 PM
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AlleyKatt22
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Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Casselberry, FL
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I'm sorry to be the barer of bad news but you're wasting your time. You can not help him, just like I can't help my heroin addict husband. His addiction is not your problem. Its not your fault. You can not fix it.

He is not clean. He is not going to get clean or stay clean because you want him to. He has to want it and its clear that he does not. He is going to use and he's going to lie and eventually he will steal from you. I have been through it all. The false promises, the bold face lies, and the pain it all brings. Do what you have to do to help yourself. Protect yourself however you can. Don't enable him. Don't center your life around him. He has nothing to offer you because he belongs to the drugs. They are his #1.

I'm sorry you're going through this. I hope you can find the strength to do what you know you need to do.
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