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Old 09-04-2011, 06:11 PM
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marie1960
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Shirt, I think you are not giving yourself enough credit here. That little voice inside your head, otherwise known as your "gut instinct" is telling you something. No trust, = no relationship. It is truly that simple.

Now is your opportunity to re- evaluate your relationship with him. I would be asking myself, What do I need to feel secure in a relationship, and can he give me this?

Going through life with the kinds of doubts you are experiencing, is absolutely no way to live, and very unhealthy. His child is always going to be in his life and so is her mama. It's is 100% your CHOICE . Actually you have the power to choose whatever you want for your life. I would be hesitant to put all my eggs in one basket with your BF.

It is so difficult to make educated decisions when it comes to matters of the heart. Often our emotions cloud the reality at hand. Wishing you the best in sorting out your feelings.
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