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Old 09-02-2011, 09:59 PM
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BobbyJ
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For those of you who dont understand what I meant about going to have coffee with that guy let me explain:

#1 - I love coffee alot!! Drink it every morning!!...BUT.....

#2 - A normal man (if there is one) A man who is NOT an alcoholic in todays world.
Would most likely say, "Hey, you want to go get a drink OR a cup of coffee?"

THE RED FLAG is: "Hey, you want to go have coffee?"

Meaning a few things in my pea brain:
A: He is either an alcoholic or a recovering alcoholic
B: He is either Mormon, because they dont drink coffee
C: He is a real manulipator, the sleezey kind, just spouting of crap, thinking thats what
a woman want to hear..

PLUS - My X wasnt much of a coffee drinker, until he went to rehab. After that
he began to drink 4 pots a day. Of course, I had to work and pay for that too!!!!

So coffee as simple as it may seem...Is a big red flag for me!

If you seriously stay in recovery and learn about yourself. Hopefully you will learn what your red flags are.

Takingcharge..Your so right!! Love what you wrote!
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