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Old 09-02-2011, 07:33 AM
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Fandy
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I think that she may be telling you in an effort to get your attention to let her come home...but it can't be both ways.

I also think that she may be very scared about court and is again looking for you to foot the bill on any fines.

I'm so sorry you are again upset, but I think you need to not go and be supportive either. let her face the consequences of her actions, pay her own fines and live her life as she wishes...for whatever reason, she isn't seeing what a dangerous game she continues to play, it's still a game for her. Perhaps if you are NOT there, the judgement would be harsher???? IDK...i hope you feel better today.
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