Oh, Bonbon, please consider you and your daughter HUGGED big time. Please believe me when I tell you as a child I was where your daughter is today.
She will over come this. Why, because I have read your previous posts and you are strong, wise, and growing by leaps and bounds.
You need time to re-group. MG is totally right when she says this is not your bad. The pebble in the pond sends ripples clear across the waters and the ripples touch us all. That's why I can understand where you are now.
Please be as kind and gentle with yourself as you would be with me if this were my post, my life, and my trauma.
Love and prayers from one who cares,
Daffodil