Old 08-31-2011, 08:28 PM
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Kindeyes
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If it is not a consistent thing that she learns to use to her advantage, this incident should not be an issue.

My son didn't have a sympathy card......but he had a smile and dark brown laughing eyes that could melt anyone's heart. He learned to use it to his advantage. Not a good thing.

You'll have many opportunities to keep her grounded. Your awareness that it could be used as a crutch or a means of manipulation will keep it in check.

Rest easy, Rita!

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