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Old 08-30-2011, 11:12 AM
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Pelican
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Welcome to the SR family!

Pull out your keyboard and make yourself at home by reading and posting as much as needed.

I divorced my AH (alcoholic husband) with out an extended legal seperation to protect myself and children from the consequences of his active drinking (and driving). The laws vary by state, so I suggest you check with your lawyer and be sure you are protected with a legal seperation from the consequences of his behavior.

You asked if you are doing the right thing?

You are taking steps to protect yourself from violence and a progressive disease. Alcoholism is progressive and it does get worse.

Unfortunately, your AH is taking meds that do not mix with alcohol. He behavior may be unpredictable. I applaud you for getting a restraining order.

Alcohol is a depressant, therefore, as long as your AH is mixing alcohol with his meds; he will not be relieving his symptoms of depression. Alcohol and anti-depressants do not mix.

Please continue to take care of yourself
You are important, and your life matters!

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