Originally Posted by
akrasia 
He did kinda "ruin your life" for a while there, and he broke your heart.
No one is powerful enough to ruin our lives. It's just not possible. If our lives are not what we want them to be, it is a result of our own choices.
Lashing out at others for perceived "wrongs" does so much damage... to them and us. It is never acceptable to rage on someone, ever. When it happens... when we find ourselves being someone we don't like, we need to stop... examine our own behavior, and if/when the time comes, we need to make amends for our wrong doings.
No matter what those around chose to do/not do... WE are responsible for living our lives with dignity and respect.
Thanks for letting me share!
Shannon