Too funny! Mine was famous for this line:
"yes, it's true I need to make some changes. But you do too"
Because I always wanted to do my share and more for making the marriage work, I'd ask for concrete examples of what behaviors or actions he'd like me to change.
"just stop controlling everything".
Ummm ok. Have u not noticed the past year with my alanon recovery, I not only do not control, but also stopped caring so much. That is why we separated! Even out of the house, away from wife and kids, divorce filed, it's still
"you need to make changes too..."
Yeah- I finally did and thanks for the advice!! Lol