I know exactly what you are describing. The exhaustion and sleeping so much is prevalent for me, too. My doctor started me on Zoloft and has increased it once already. It has truly helped me in dealing with this situation. My husband and I are no longer together because of another type of addiction, and my XABF was an alcoholic and a drug abuser. The reason I still go to AlAnon is because my therapist sent me there and said, "You need to LISTEN to these people. If you don't want to speak, just say 'I pass'. You must look for the similarities within their situations and yours." The reason I still go to AlAnon, even though I am by myself now, is this. Why am I continually attracted to men I need to fix? Why don't I find one that is healthy and whole? Something within me is drawing these men to me instead of the other kind. Until I can figure this out, I continue to go, and the answer will come..
