How did you "find" whatever type of secular sobriety you use?
I was in traditional treatment, getting the standard "ego-deflation" routine, which I fought tooth and nail. Finally, when I became somewhat of a nuisance, one of the counselors took me aside and had a little private chat with me. He said "look, we're not supposed to tell you about this, and I could get fired for it, so you didn't get it from me, but read this," and he handed me a copy of the "Rational Recovery: The New Cure for Substance Addiction" book.
This is why I give away what was so freely given to me. :-)