(((((wtbh))))) I'm so sorry you have to go through all of this.
Originally Posted by
wanttobehealthy 
He accuses me of tracking him but I think he's the one doing it. I feel like a prisoner in my town, my house, my life.
This may very well be true. My xh accused me of being unfaithful when it was actually him who was having an affair.
Originally Posted by
wanttobehealthy I have changed passwords, opened a separate bank acct, email account, and the one thing I can;t stop is him showing up unannounced whenever he likes, making scenes.
I'm glad to hear that you have done so and hope that at least he will not be able to hack into any of your private financial and e-mail dealings.
If he has been ordered to leave the house, have you been able to change the locks so that he can't just come and go whenever he feels, or did he leave without a court order? Although I don't know the laws very well, it would seem to me that you could lock the doors and not allow him in if he stops by unannounced. Plus, if he makes a ruckus to get in, then the police could be called and would probably have to do something to protect you.
I hope the courts will move things along and you can soon have peace!
Hugs, HG