Originally Posted by
LaTeeDa 
These words are very wise. It took a really long time for me to learn this lesson, even after the divorce. Sometimes I still catch myself wanting him to do "what's right" by my standards. When I let go of that, my life becomes instantly more manageable.
L
This sums it up for me too.
Especially after divorce where he has "happily moved on" but holds on to an insane amount of anger.
Re:private school
They will "make a deal with you" as they have flexibility. Many let you pay the second half in monthly installments.