The drunk dialer strikes again
Ex"r"abf is having serious trouble with no contact. I asked him for some time and nc this weekend, after he hacked into my fb account and read my messages and deleted some of my friends. I blocked him.
After a month of sobriety (and a week where he was telling me all was well and that I wasn't supportive and needy him wanting to talk on the phone all day and try to make me feel guilty because I have said that I won't work on our relationship right now) I asked for this time.
And then comes the evidence that verifies that he is not healthy enough to have a healthy relationship. Monday when I didn't answer the phone or 44313642 texts, he makes the threat that if I don't answer, he will go get wasted.
He didn't Monday night, or ties and I talked to him for a few minutes at lunch yesterday. Today he started with the texts that make no sense, random crap, song lyrics, nonsense posts. As I wasn't answering, the voicemails started coming, and the voicemail threat that he would call my parents and sister.
He tried to call my parents, I was here and picked up then hung up. he called my sister and said some bizarre things to her and accused her of breaking us up.
I fear that there will be more calls tonight. It is so manipulative to keep calling my family. He thinks I will answer to keep him from calling, and I'm considering it as I really don't want him to call
My parents, especially if he is going to continue into the wee hours of the am as is his usual.
This verifies my need to go nc and stay that way.
Ugh... I want a vacation on an island with no computer or phone? Anyone wanna come with?