Noelle- yeah I am with you-- I guess it doesn't really matter if it's attributable to alcoholism or not. He lies, he's stolen money from our joint account, he is deceitful etc... and he accuses me of things (that oddly SOUND really rational which makes it hard to brush them aside TBH).
Whether it's related to alcoholism or not, it's defintely related to his guilty conscience I'd imagine and his need to deflect/project etc...
I really was just more curious than anything and wondered if the paranoia and being CERTAIN beyond certainty of things that he has NO proof of or reason to believe, was something others have experienced.
What's frustrating to me is that he has "facts" that he says support his accusations and it's annoying to have this rolling around in my head bc I feel guilty of the things he's accused me of despite not doing them. How sick is that?