womaninprogress

Hello fulloffaith.

I can say my decision to kick my xabf out came because he was not supportive, or helpful, or anything I want or need from a partner. Having him around was like having another child except twice as aggervating and bigger "drama" then a child, because his drama included lots of fines and legal issues and financial burdens.

We had no children together thank God. But I imagine if we had, it would have been me taking all the parental responsibilities, **** I couldn't depend on him to mow the lawn let alone take care of a child.

You have probably been doing it alone for a long time. Give yourself credit. You can do it because you HAVE to. Soldier on.

You will get angry, that's normal and ok. Let it in, accept it for what it is, and let it go.