Lillamy-Yes, its an important boundary for me because my ex used me alot to pay for things. And so do alot of guys in the area I live. Most of my girlfriends pay for their men as well who aren't A's because A.)they are lazy B.) they refuse to better themselves and get a decent job. So this is very important to me that someone doesn't freeload off me for money. I'm all for empowering women, but I think alot of young guys today use this to their advantage. They see women going for what they want and having a good job too. So, they sit back and let her do everything and pay for everything.