Thanks for the replies. To be honest, at this point I am not sure if she can quit on her own. Right now I am working on a bit of detachment. I do see that the progression is moving foward, but to be honest, other than when there are raving episodes (which are few), I am a bit indifferent. At first I tried to fix the problem with all the traditional methods that dont work. When I realized there was nothing I could do, I started moving on. The kids are all over 18 now. They understand the situation and pretty much roll their eyes and say what ever. But a person does become like a frog in a pan of water and the heat slowly gets turned up.
Grizz