I had the same experience during family week at the rehab center my husband was at. I walked in and there was a couple from our small town whose son had recently been admitted. At first I was uneasy and felt exposed and vulnerable. But the dad, especially, knowing that it was awkward for all of us, gave me space when I needed it and respected my privacy. That display of respect was very powerful and we became great allies over the week.
So I appreciate your desire to turn and run, but maybe if you give this woman a chance, you can find a friendship. Our lives can seem so fragmented in the chaos of alcholism that it might be nice to have someone that connects the dots in different settings. I think you will know in a very short time if she is someone you can trust.
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