Originally Posted by
skippernlilg 
What I mean is all along...how has he been paying for his alcohol? Isn't there a paper trail during the last 6 months that would indicate the pattern so that you can show that in court?
Yes, he's used the bank card but once he realized I was tracking it (bc I said so in anger more than once) he started "getting groceries" and at the same time would get alcohol. So there are plenty of grocery store charges (no liquor store ones) and what he does is buy beer and wine at the grocery store and get cash back (which just shows up as part of the grocery charge) and uses that presumably at the liquor store...
Unfortunately he's spending lots of time thinking through how to be sneaky and NOT leave an obvious trail.
I have a journal I have kept and shared it with my lawyer who said it's good to have but it falls into he said/she said territory. While she believes the journal is legit, there's nothing that tells the court it is 100% factual since it's just my word vs his.