So glad you are keeping up with your "Zen" attitude!
Illnesses are great teachers. Now with my knee issues I have learned about
-patience
-the importance of staying positive (in a healthy way)
-the need for tenderness in my life
-flexibility
-to "slow down"
-how healing involves body, mind & soul
I added you to my "good men" list, I like your honesty and compassion.
I need to get my codependency in check the next weeks as my mom is coming to town, your post reminded me of the importance of healthy boundaries.
Hugs!!