Stay mad so you won't be sad. The brain can't process both at the same time. Write down all the ca ca stuff he has ever done. Keep the list with you at all times and when you miss him read it. Mine was like 1. flirted with x, 2. drunk again by 3pm, 3. he's crosseyed again, 4.he lied about xyz, 5. growing pot in the closet, 6. putdowns, 7. porn, 8.he wants sex and he's sloshed, 9.he's drinking and driving, 10. he's selfish, 11. I'm bored with partying and his loser friends, 12. he doesn't take care of himself, 13. doesn't respect my wish he doesn't smoke in the house or my car, etc.....etc..... BE MAD !
