We started dating in December 2008. Got married May 2010. The drinking started about July 2009. All the signs were there. I was 32 wanting to be married, have a family,he quick drinking, thought I could change him, and well..... I kicked him out Feb - Apr 2011. He quick drinking, hasn't drank since. But nothing changed. Still lazy as hell and no recovery, just kept drinking. I'm tired of being the emotional, financial, take care of everything in this relationship.... so I'm throwing in the towel. Done. It's chaos! But I see the light at the end of the tunnel. I get my life back, my house, my stuff and yes probably the credit card debt he ran up.... but it's peaceful.... and I don't have to take of nothing but me!