Originally Posted by
LifeRecovery 
Because I feel alone in my family and circle of friends sometimes as the one to break the cycle. I have many A in my circle and many co-dependents, we all do are thing very well.
I feel the same way in being the one to break the cycle.
My 23-year-old stopped by yesterday to drop off my dog clippers, and I told her I was sad that she was a different person on the weekends. Her ABF is always camped out at her place on the weekends, and she virtually stops communicating with me because she's so enmeshed with him.
I hope some day she can learn to be true to self, and be consistent in her relationship with me.
Till then I still love her dearly, and just have to let go and let God.
