he's pretty choosey for someone who has been unemployed for 2 years.
he's in a union....he can't just go work for any company doing what he knows. if he does, he will have a lot to lose....so don't call him lazy or choosey.... he's an alcoholic yes, but he's also a good man. he wants to go back to work in the worst way. he just had it so easy when his mother did it all for him...and i am not talking about 30 years ago...we've only been married for 4 years..... ask quesitons before you attack someone like that..... you don't know me or my AH..... i came here to get advise and comfort, not to have people talk so openly rude.