MG,
That was good advise from Ann...your son has rights too and telling his employer would be violating that.
When I was back in my "Leave it to Beaver" mode I was so afraid everyone was going to find out...and they did. Today I don't have to pick up a paper....someone tells me if he is in it (thank you very much). And I was moritfied....sometimes I still am...but I know who I can talk to about it and who I cannot.
Hugs,
JT