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transformyself Jesus, you've got a baby and a dying, end stage alcoholic husband. My heart goes out to you.
I guess I can't say a whole lot, I asked for both of them
. True, I didn't know my husband was an alcoholic at the outset of the relationship, but I still wanted to be with him, come what may. Now I'm thinking that might not have been the greatest thing to wish for, but life is a learning experience. Have a 5-year-old too, but he's not here all the time -- the summer visit has actually gone a lot smoother than I expected, mainly because we have a house we just moved into that has a really nice layout for living two separate lives when one decides not to live life at all.