Originally Posted by
Boleo 
We'll see... We'll see.
You are about to find out the limits of epistemology. Not that I am trying to cut short your struggle. You need to struggle 100% before you can surrender 100%
Go ahead, knock yourself out pal... LOL!
okay...
many things i could say to that, luckily i'm now clear-headed from the longest and dare i say easiest spell of sobriety i've had in years, so i'll just ask you to consider in your own time whether you thought your comment would support me or anyone reading this in staying sober?
i''m also not crazy about the imagery of 'struggling until you have to surrender', but that is 'my stuff' from my past and i'm sure you can work out that there are people for whom that's not a helpful mental image there.
i know you mean well, just think it through whether anyone's addiction actually needs cheerleaders to help it in overcoming the methods they chose, i think you'll find we all have enough on our plates thank you!
peace.
debs