"I encourage you to limit any conversation or actions about the plants to your son's well-being, and if they are to be removed based on what's best for your son that they be removed by your husband and the law."
Cyranoak can you explain more about what you said above? Sorry my head is spinning....I am not planning to remove the plants myself, after my appointment with the lawyer I am going to see what he says and decide what to do. So are you saying I should just let my husband get caught if someone else snitches on him and let it go hoping my son is not around when it does? Thanks for your words of wisdom, even if I am confused.....