WTBH I have seen many examples lately about how someone starts behaving differently because he or she is with someone else.
But in the end, some of us go back to our true selves, can no longer betray who we are.
I identify with you because I have integrity. XABF did not have it. It is who he is. Can't change that.
#1. Lying is not relative and is not negotiable.
#2. Honesty isn't circumstantial and relative and is not negotiable
Yes, dealing with someone without integrity is walking on quicksand.
I can't relax.