My husband just called me to tell me how much he loves me.......he knows how upset I am..........he just knows me.....I told him that is was his choice whether he goes or not........(that killed me) I said it very nicely and very calm......I did everything I could to not let him know how crazy I am over it..... I did tell him that I was uncomfortable with him going........(was that to much) ergggggggg..........I suggested that maybe I could go with him.........he was aggravated by that..........he told me so.........I know LET GO AND LET GOD............