WTBH, I want to thank you again for sharing this.
It planted a seed and I ended up doing an unintentional step 4. Your comments were so right on. I had gone from my AW had a problem to we had a problem and kind of stuck there. I reread your post, really looked at myself and finally accepted the fact the the problem was all mine. Her drinking wasn't the problem at all, my reactions to it were.
Thank you again sooooo much for that post.
:ghug3
Your friend and student in recovery,