My RAH moved half his stuff out then came back while i was at work on Friday and pretty much took the rest of "our stuff" including the bed,couch,laptop he gave my daughter, her pillows, kitchenwares and food. He has the money and ability (truck) to buy new things and had taken items that we didnt agree upon. Im pretty sure he knows it will be hard for me to replace those items as he is no longer providing income in the home. I think this showed alot about his character.
His last text to me was: stick with Alanon and that it will be an emotional rollercoaster but worth it. Stick with your friends and sponsor. Give Me a CALL when you reach step 12
My thoughts;
Sticking with Alanon? yes
Giving him a Call? no