So, he comes home for work today and apologizes for lying. He said that he guessed lying was a habit. He didn't want me to be "ashamed, angry or pissed." I said, no, you are the one that is ashamed. I told him sorry doesn't cut it after SIX YEARS of the same thing. Again, I remained calm. Told him that lying was a habit he couldn't break. Told him again that I can't control him and that I am no longer going to try. He is a big boy. His actions from here on out are his to own. I also told him about no longer putting my check into our joint account. He was NOT happy about that. Anyway, just an update. Its funny. I feel nothing. Absolutely nothing. I continued with the stance that I will not live in this any longer. I'm not leaving my house though. He is free to leave at any time when he doesn't agree with the way things are going to be from now on.