Oh, I also calmly said "We've had several days this week that were GREAT. Yet, you chose to lie to me about something that there was no need. I've realized that its not me. It's you. I can't control you. I can't change you. And realizing this, at this moment, is quite liberating for me."
He got angry at some point and grumbled "Shut up and leave me alone!" I continued to calmly say what I wanted to say and then told him "Good night." Changes are on the horizon. He's not going to be happy. But I will be.