Thread: Mediation?
View Single Post
Old 07-14-2011, 03:20 PM
  # 8 (permalink)  
LexieCat
A work in progress
 
LexieCat's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: South Jersey
Posts: 16,633
Yeah, I think mediation is inappropriate in an abusive situation, but for your garden-variety alcoholic, it can work. There are a lot of up-sides, and one of the biggest, to me, is that you get an agreement out of it (if it works). It's harder for him to play the victim card when the settlement is something he AGREED to.

I think it is definitely worth a try. If it isn't going to work, you will probably realize it early on, and you can then move directly to Plan B.
LexieCat is offline