I was always blamed for my EXAH problems; drinking,legal, and otherwise. His family was not there and never dealt with the chaos. Funny thing happened though; upon release from prison, he went to live with one of his sister's. The same night, his relapse started, and quickly went to the point that no one knew what to do with him. Needless to say, he is now in another Salvation Army program. And she now has a better understanding of what I have dealt with for the last three years.