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Old 08-18-2004, 08:13 PM
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Bellesarius
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Originally Posted by JT
L,

You are making me think so I am going to back track to how expectations made me nuts.

I had a preconceived idea of what a marriage and family should be....

I still think my expectations were realistic. But they made me a very sick individual for a period of time. If I expect Ward to not drink at night I am setting myself up. If I expect the Beav not to lie....same deal. If I accept reality for what it is and know my boundaries I see a lot clearer.

Make sense?
JT
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