I'm so happy to hear that you have reached your point. It feels great! And, if it feels this good even through all the chaos that is still occurring I can only imagine how much better it's going to continue to get.
I'm going to have to keep coming back here and reading to stay sane, that much is clear. He's already lashing out, "I dont' want to continue to support you," stuff like that. I have no income right now, am self employed.
I need an attorney.