This is in response to a private message to me. Suggesting I learn about "Helicopter moms", and asking when i am going to let him go to grow up. Fact is, he does not want to grow up, but that is my fault-how?
he gives me just enough bull$#!^, to make me think he is trying. But I am seeing that it is just that-bull$#!^.
So please, until you really understand all the dynamics, refrain from being a online psychologist. it hurts people sometimes, who do not need more hurt.