Thank you Tranformyself, that is just what I needed. No contact. Its not like if we did have contact I believe a word out of his mouth anyway. I just get weak when it comes to our daughter. She misses him, wants to see him, etc...but I have to be strong and remember I am showing her what she should and shouldn't accept in a partner. I hate it because I do know early recovery is a hard time for him as well and I don't want to ignore that he is doing the work but I am not going to be treated like this anymore! I just called my old sitter to see if her house could serve as a drop off and pick up spot. I cannot handle him coming here...He really makes me feel like I'm crazy!