Old 06-28-2011, 06:22 PM
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theuncertainty
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Oh, god. I didn't even get to one relapse. My final "I'm DONE" moment was when he came back from a 30-day rehab, we'd met for lunch and he b-tched about the after-care program and "those people" and proceeded to tell me "It was always the hard stuff, never the beer." and "Every one says I was sick, but I don't see it."

I literally told XAH "Well, that's all I needed to hear," walked away, got in my car and left.

As others have mentioned, it all depends on very personal choices on what we're willing to live with. Some are able to continue hoping or still see a chance for their qualifier's recovery. Other's can't see the hope, or maybe are tired of hoping or ..... So many factors.

Being done does not make you a bad person; it just means you've reached your limit.
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